3/2 00:17 Regarding human acts, there is no absolute right or absolute wrong. Spanning these two are countless reasons! It's not that doubts don't exist but that I believe whoever is more tolerant and understanding will naturally gain much more in the end. But at the same time must remind oneself to not view self as the sufferer or the victim. On the contrary, you may be the perpetrator in other people's eyes! Don't say "easier said than done", I've always maintained the attitude of forgiveness first; there maybe losses, but for sure , the gains are more! Truly!
人所為的,沒有絕對的對,也沒絕對的錯。兩者間有千萬個原因理由!不是沒存疑,但我相信,誰包容體諒多一點,自會得著多一點,但同時也要提醒自己,別自以 為是受苦受害者,只因反過來,你也許是別人眼中行兇的那一個!不用說"說易行難"了,我一直抱著先寬恕的態度,也去有失,但絕對會得更多!真的!
3月1日 20:13
How to get along with people is an acquired knowledge! Justice/fairness; is not for you or he or she or I to decide alone, yet judgment always falls on the hands of certain people! Although these people may have the right to pass judgment (make decision), does it mean the judgment (decision) is fair and correct? Like Confucius said: "Virtue is not alone, it has neighbors!" Dismiss me as a fool then! I believe in mine (judgments), at least, I know my deeds did not hurt people! Sorry, I am sure I'm better than you!
人與人之間如何相處是個學問!公道,不是你我他單獨去決定,但,判決又總落在一些人的手中!那些人雖有權去下判斷,那是否代表其判斷是正確?是公平?就如 孔子先生所曰:「德不孤,必有鄰 」!就當我是傻瓜吧!你決定你的,我相信我的,起碼我知道,我做的一切,沒傷害人!抱歉,我肯定,我比你好!
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