Earlier on I talked about Chung Ka Yan, so now I’ve to talk about another sister, Chen Fala. That Chen Fala lei, she is truly like my biological younger sister (miu). My biological miu is also very pretty, and I think Fala is also very pretty. As to personality, I think hers is quite similar to my biological miu’s too. Their personality is very strong-minded. And her (Fala) personality is also very direct, so direct, my jaw drops. But that’s precisely what I like about Fala. Not only in the entertainment industry, but in society, just wanting to hear some truth it is incredibly difficult. Because for various reasons: maybe not wanting to hurt you, or some people just dislike speaking the truth, or some just don’t speak the truth ever. But Fala, her mood is very transparent. Once her mood is apparent, very quickly her speech will show it too. This sister, Fala, I feel she very often unwittingly hurt people or offended people without meaning to. But I can say in all honesty that she is a very genuine and kind person.
We talk often. Would you say her personality is too direct? Can
be. But if I were to choose friends, I’d rather her kind of personality than those I can’t even be sure if they speak
the truth or not. Life is so short, why waste time second guessing if that person were
speaking the truth or not.
I don’t have to worry about her because she knows how to protect herself and she will keep her principles. But at the same time I hope to encourage her: I don’t want you to be fake but maybe you can rein in your bluntness so that your journey may be happier. Because she did say to me that the journey is difficult and that she can’t understand why it is so difficult as a person. I told her: You don’t have to give up but persist on. However, can you at certain aspect compromise just a little? If it truly makes you uncomfortable, you don’t have to accept it but you don’t have to be so blunt about it, either. So all parties will feel better, and all parties have a space to back off. Because the potential in her is huge, both acting and singing. Not wanting you to change a lot but that, just a little, slightly, lightly, step back a little, and you’ll be more successful.
Fala Chen (10/02/2012)
Hi Tamaya (Clamine),
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to express my thanks for coming to Fala's defense. People bash her all the time for various reasons, but on her acting and singing that doesn't bother me as I know it's subjective. However, attacks on her character - especially unfounded makes me furious. Fala is a gossip queen - part of her media appeal, I suppose, but people seem to especially love to believe every negative word they read regarding her. Even twisting positive things, Steven has said about her in the past.
Advo, you're welcome. I like Fala too.
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